SUMMARY IMPETUS

         Abdul is a moslem man who  are very obey with religion.  He always kind to his neighbor and his wife.  His story began when Abdul woke up and pray subuh. After that he had breakfast and he met with his sister then they talk about seeking knowledge is an obligation on every muslim, male and female. Then he went to work, when he walk he found a neighbor’s newspaper then he gave it to his neighbor. Then, when in the train he met with his friend who was very frustrated because he had many problem. Abdul told to him to be patient and thank to God. After he got off from the train he met a man who looked Abdul with annoying face, but Abdul just smile because smile is a charity.  Then Abdul arrived in his office, he read a newspaper about murdered. Then his friend came, he talked a little with his friend. For a little moment, the phone rang for Abdul friend. It was from their boss, and they were talking about position. Abdul looked furious. Then, when Abdul finished work, Abdul back to his home, he brought some flower for his wife. In the last, at night, Abdul pray again to God. He asked to God to gave him  good health, make me obedient son, loving husband,  good brother, responsibly father, cousin, generous neighbor, excellent employee, productive member of society, make all of my statement and action both of hidden and appearance make of your sight, oh Allah guide me to paradise. 

QUOTATION AND PARAPHRASE IMPETUS

QUOTATION

Be Kind to Neighbor

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 8.44 Narrated by Abdullah Ibn Umar

Allah' Messenger (saws) said, "Jibrael (a.s.) kept on recommending me about treating the neighbors in a kind and polite manner, so much so that I thought that he would order (me) to make them (my) heirs!"

http://www.islamhelpline.com/node/7478

Smiling is Charity

The Prophet Muhammad (peace is upon him) said: "Charity is prescribed for each descendant of Adam every day the sun raises." He was then asked: "From what do we give charity every day?" The Prophet answered: "The doors of goodness are many...enjoining good, forbidding evil, removing harm from the road, listening to the deaf, leading the blind, guiding one to the object of his need, hurrying with the strength of one's legs to one in sorrow who is asking for help, and supporting the feeble with the strength of one's arms--all of these are charity prescribed for you." He also said: "Your smile for your brother is charity." - Fiqh-us-Sunnah, Volume 3, Number 98

http://www.islamawareness.net/Hadith/htopic_charity.html

Treat Woman Kindly

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Treat women well, for woman is created from a rib and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper portion. If you try to straighten it, it will break, but if you leave it as it is, it will remain curved; so treat women with kindness.”

Source: Sahih Bukhari 3153

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari

عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضى الله عنه قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم اسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ فَإِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ وَإِنَّ أَعْوَجَ شَىْءٍ فِي الضِّلَعِ أَعْلاَهُ فَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمُهُ كَسَرْتَهُ وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهُ لَمْ يَزَلْ أَعْوَجَ فَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ

3153 صحيح البخاري كِتَاب أَحَادِيثِ الْأَنْبِيَاءِ لولا بنو إسرائيل لم يخنز اللحم

http://www.dailyhadithonline.com/2011/03/10/allah-created-women-different-from-men-so-respect-these-differences-and-be-kind-to-them/

PARAPHRASE

1. We must generous with other people around us because Allah SWT said that we must treat people around us politely and kindly.

2. We must be a good person by giving smile with other people who meet us.
3. We must generous and polite to woman because in hadith said that we must treat woman well,because woman created from a rib and the most curved portion of the rib is its upper position. so we must treat woman kindly.

SMOKING

       In the pas, smoking was not a big issue or problem. However, nowadays smoking has increased in many different ways. There are several causes and effect of the increase of smoking.

     For some people smoking is very important thing in their life. Because smoking can make them very enjoy and relax when they have many problems and depress. Cause of smoking not only depress when they have many problems but also they have a lot of free time and they didn’t know what will they do, so they decided to smoking. Surrounded by smokers is also became a main cause of smoking. They are affected by smokers so they become a smokers too.

      In the other hand some people who didn’t like smoking said that smoking have many negative effect for their body. For example cancer, this is cause in cigarette implied many dangerous substances. Not only that but also smoking is waste of money. Ussually smokers didn’t have enough time to together with their family because they are to busy handle their problems. Eventhough some smokers can died because they are too much smoking.

    In conclusion, smoking is a very bad habit. Many people have died from smoking. This habit must be contained by government to get rid of.

MAN CRYING IN PUBLIC

          Have you ever heard man crying in public??

Crying in identical with woman. Man never cry,  moreover in public. Even when they have complicated problem. Because man is stronger than woman. If man crying, its mean that they couldn’t stand anymore with their problem. Man crying depend on their problems. When it is a personal problem they try to be strong. For example, when his mother or father died they will cry. According to my friend Ichsan, he said that when a man got break up from his girlfriend, he will cry in front of the girl to make her trust with him and they are didn’t break up. But i think, Ichsan’s argument is not gentlemen, because seem like no more girl in the world. Man more gentlemen when he can hold on his tears in public. But, if his problem is very complicated and he can bear it, maybe he will cry, but not in public. He will cry in his room or he will look for quite place to cry. So, the conclusion is crying is for woman and for man crying in public is not forbid but it is not gentlemen. 

ONE FIND SPRING DAY

2008 at Incheon Airport
"Oppa, where are you go?"
"I must go to England, Hyemi."
"You mean you'll leave me?"
"Yes, Hyemi. Sorry."
"But why Oppa, why you leave me?"
"I can't tell you now Hyemi, someday when we met again I will tell you."
"Andwae oppa, don't leave me...take me with you oppa."
"I can't Hyemi, please don't cry. Good bye Hyemi."

2013 at Seoul
"Minho oppa...how areyou now?I miss you so much. 5 years you leave me and you never called me. You know oppa, now I worked in restaurant and I always went to place when the first time we meet."said me with looking his photo.
"Hyemi-ah...."called Eun Jae who run to me
"What's wrong Eun Jae"ask me
"Bos called you, he looks very angry."said her
"What??Angry?Oh My God..I'm forget to buy him a cup of cappucino."said me panic
Then I run back to inside restaurant as fast as I can and ready to listen my Bos nagged.


to be continued....